Published: June 23, 2016 By

Photo of crowd with signs supporting Jo Cox

London 鈥 Thousands gathered in Trafalgar Square Wednesday to remember and pay tribute to Jo Cox, who was assassinated on June 16 while meeting with constituents in Birstall, West Yorkshire. The rally was held in conjunction with other remembrance gatherings around the world on what would have been Cox鈥檚 42nd birthday.

Attendees held signs with images of Cox鈥檚 face and waved placards with taglines such as 鈥#LoveLikeJo.鈥 Organizers themed the event 鈥淢ore In Common,鈥 a nod to a line from Cox鈥檚 maiden speech in Parliament where she declared, 鈥淸W]e are far more united and have far more in common with each other than things that divide us.鈥
Brendan Cox, Jo Cox鈥檚 widower and father to their two small children, spoke with broken words as he choked back tears.

鈥淎mazing and deeply touching as all of this is, I wish I wasn鈥檛 here today,鈥 he said. 鈥淣ot because I鈥檓 ungrateful to the organizers, or to you all for coming. But because of course, I鈥檇 rather be鈥 I鈥檇 rather be with Jo.鈥

While describing what Jo would have done on her 42nd birthday had she been around to celebrate it, Brendan Cox touched on the looming 鈥淏rexit鈥 vote taking place tomorrow.

鈥淪he would have spent it dashing around the streets of our hometown, trying to convince people that Britain is stronger in Europe,鈥 Brendan Cox said. 鈥淪he feared the consequences of Europe dividing again, hated the idea of building walls between us, and worried about the dynamics that that could unleash.鈥

His words were met with loud applause from the crowd, many of whom wore 鈥淚N鈥 stickers to signify their support of remaining in the EU.

People holding hands at the rally

Speakers who followed Mr. Cox echoed sentiments about Jo Cox鈥檚 generosity, compassion, and tireless advocacy for refugees from Syria and other war-torn regions. A tribute music video from U2鈥檚 Bono accompanied poetry readings from actors Gillian Anderson and Bill Nighy, and the event was headlined with a speech from Nobel laureate Malala Yousufazi.

Malala reminded the thousands in attendance of her own brutal experience of being shot by extremists because of her advocacy for educating girls in Pakistan.

鈥淚鈥檓 here today as a living proof that [the extremists] can鈥檛 win with bullets either,鈥 she said. 鈥淎nd Jo鈥檚 life is a proof that a message of peace is more powerful than any weapon of war. Once again, the extremists have failed.鈥

The alleged murderer of Jo Cox, Thomas Mair, is currently being held by British authorities on several charges, including murder, with terrorism charges pending in an appearance scheduled for next week. While police have not publicly discussed his motivations for the attack, eyewitnesses to the event have told local media that the attacker shouted 鈥淏ritain First!鈥 before fatally shooting and stabbing Jo Cox outside a library. Mair has also been accused of having links to far-right groups in Europe and the United States.

The murder has shocked the nation and brought a temporary halt to the heavy and oftentimes nasty campaigning from both sides of the Brexit debate.

Paul Lasok, a campaigner for the Remain campaign, believes people have become fed up with the mudslinging.

鈥淲hat is noticeable is that the rhetoric is very, very unfortunate,鈥 Lasok said. 鈥淭his is a campaign where there is very little debate鈥 there鈥檚 a lot of haranguing going on. I think a lot of members of the public just don鈥檛 like it.鈥

Roy Ashbury, a retired teacher from Hampshire in Southern England who came to London to pay his respect to Jo Cox, placed a certain amount of blame on the inflamed rhetoric that has been slung in the lead-up to the vote; particularly from the Leave campaign.

鈥淭he atmosphere has been really unhealthy,鈥 Ashbury said. 鈥淸The attack] was almost bound to happen. Nobody predicted it, but you felt that something bad was going to happen.鈥

He called the attack a 鈥減olitical act,鈥 and also blames the 鈥渉atred and animosity鈥 he sees in conservative newspapers like the Daily Mail. He thinks her death may influence the vote tomorrow.

鈥淚 think a lot of people have said that they feel inspired,鈥 Ashbury said. 鈥淚 feel myself that I must do more to be true to what she believed in.鈥

The rally concluded with a request that all in attendance join their hands to symbolize love and unity, and a stirring rendition of 鈥淒o You Hear the People Sing鈥 from the play 鈥淟es Miserables,鈥 Jo Cox鈥檚 favorite musical.

Mariella Frostrup, a close friend of the Cox family who hosted the event, thanked those who attended and left them with a message of hope.

鈥淒on鈥檛 let this be just one day,鈥 Frostrup said. 鈥淟et鈥檚 take this feeling of support and love for each other, and unity, and roll it out.鈥