鈥淚t is always important to know when something has reached its end. Closing circles, shutting doors, finishing chapters, it doesn't matter what we call it; what matters is to leave in the past those moments in life that are over.鈥�
鈥� Paulo Coelo
The cyclicality of process and its perpetual reification of the start-iterate-finish paradigm grinds at the two-pronged directive of modern, capitalist living鈥攚ork hard, get rewarded. However, we know the cycle as we envision it鈥攁 pristine linearized radius that mythicizes the inevitability of progress feeding progress鈥攙ersus the cycle as we experience it, something more akin to this:
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Given the cultural disconnect between ideal and reality, it becomes important to manage one's own energetic engagement with process and the idea of ending. You might start by interrogating your relationship with these concepts: How would beginning with an end in mind help you? What obstacles could get in the way? What helps you decide to start ending? What do you intentionally do to end well? How do you know that you鈥檝e learned what you needed to learn? How do outcomes/products benefit you? Who do you need to be to end something? What will you do to celebrate ending?
鈥淭he end of a melody is not its goal: but nonetheless, had the melody not reached its end it would not have reached its goal either. A parable.鈥�
鈥� Nietzche
As you explore your approach to ending and build a toolkit that supports that outcome energetically, consider what it might take to find, as Neil Gaiman says, 鈥渟omewhere to rest, to stop reading, and to be content,鈥� and take some time to explore the tools below to challenge and build your relationship with your reason for getting things done. 听
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